I call you friends

I wonder what you can remember of the excitement or maybe interpretation in the first moment that you realized that Jesus Christ was making a demand on your life?

I wonder if you are at a stage in your life right now when you are looking ahead and realizing that your relationship with Jesus Christ is taking you in to new and uncharted waters, that maybe Jesus is calling you to something new in your life, something disturbing or something you would rather not have to deal with?

In our Gospel reading taken from what are called Jesus’ “farewell discourses” in John, we hear Jesus speak of “friendship” as the new relationship he has created with his followers. The Greek word he uses here for friend is philos, meaning someone who loves.

“I do not call you servants any longer, because the servant does not know what the master is doing; but I have called you friends,

because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from my Father.”

And so God’s friendship also has something to do with transparency, authenticity, what we might call plain, direct speech as opposed to flattery or holding back.

A way to think about this is that Jesus is God’s “plain speech to us,” the Word coming to us in our own language, in fact in our own flesh, the Word revealing to us and uniting us to the heart of God’s very self.

As we continue to celebrate Easter, marking that celebration with the renewal of our baptismal vows.

As we reflect on what our calling and vocation as Christians in this world might mean in every day language, what it might call us to do with our lives.

As we work together as the body of Christ in these communities of Hendon and Colindale showing forth not just in our words and prayers but by our actions too the love of Christ that we find to be true at the heart of our lives….

I want to remind you that all of us are the enactment of God’s outpouring of life and God’s transparent, authentic and direct speech, that has  already come to us in Christ Jesus.

When we think of Vocation, when we look back on the lives of some of the saints or those whose lives inspire us I guess it is a truth that for them their calling, their vocation is at one and the same time like the kiss of a lover that entices and woes us and like the bite of wild animal that draws blood and caused pain.

On Thursday we recalled those whose calling was to stand against an evil in this world that took life, crushed freedom and threatened the future that has been our lives. We gave thanks for Victory day in Europe on a day that we also when to the polls as a nation to cast our vote. We were able to stand together as a nation at the voting booth on Thursday; because of those who stood together in the face of evil, who gave their blood, who embrace pain and because they cherished life answered the call to give their lives for that love.

When we hear the words of our gospel this morning we see a clear understanding in the mind of John the author of the gospel of the extremes that can be a mark of our calling as friends of Christ.

The first of these is extreme, for it’s the idea that a friend is one who would be willing to give their life for their friend. Put another way, if I am friend to you, your welfare, your hopes and dreams, your very life is so important to me that I am willing for my blood, both the symbol of and reality of my life, to be shed for you.

But in Jesus, of course, the idea of befriending becomes the enactment of befriending. For Jesus doesn’t just talk about things—he is them; he does them.  We thought about this last week with the notion of love, God is love and love is from God. And so the very pattern of Jesus’ life enacts this idea. Jesus lays down his life for his friends and in doing so, shows his disciples and you and me what loving and befriending another will mean: the freely given outpouring of life for the sake of the other.

But the Gospel of John doesn’t stop there. For right along with this notion of friendship and sacrifice comes a second one.

v 15 I do not call you servants any longer, because the servant does not know what the master is doing; I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from my Father. 16 You did not choose me but I chose you.

Jesus is Lord yes but in this new understanding and relationship that is created by his love we become friends with our Lord, no longer do I call you servants but friend.

Notice the distinction Jesus drew between being a servant and being a friend. It’s not the privilege of the servant to understand his master’s business. It’s just for him to do what he’s told. No questions. No reasons. Just “Very good, sir. If you say so, sir.”

To make it plain that he did not want such blind obedience, Jesus reminded the disciples that he had told them all he could about his Father’s business. This would make it possible for them to give him what he really wanted—the free cooperation of understanding friends.

The bible does give us examples of those who at the same time as being leaders and examples for us are also called God’s friends

 Abraham, Moses and even Job is finally called a friend of God.

Once again it is here that we see a new pattern of vocation, of calling in Christ. blind obedience to a law, loyalty to the God who like a Judge will be merciless in pronouncing judgment when we betray that loyalty

are no longer adequate, sufficient or comprehensive in the light of God’s revelation through Jesus Christ.

So today we do not just remember the past:

The times when we have responded to the call of Christ in our lives.

The times when faced with a decision we have sought direction for our lives from Jesus.

The times when we have felt the support and encouragement of our friends in Christ that have meant we have kept on going in the face of obstacles and setback, disappointments and regrets.

Today is about deciding whether or not we will say “yes” to the continuing life of Christ that is within us. The life of Christ that calls us into a friendship that will change our way of being.

Today is about deciding whether we will say “yes” to the continuing life and vocation that is ours in Christ.  A yes which can be relied upon to ask us to pour out our lives for the sake of the Church and the world at a time when we face so many dangers and troubles.

V. E Day 70th Anniversary remembered.

Giving thanks for those who made the ultimate sacrifice in the face of an evil that threatened all of us
we remember the suffering and the joy of this day 70years ago.

The Blitz In Ealing

From the collection: Nine Lessons from the Dark by Adam Thorpe

You crouched under the table as the ceiling 

Rained down flour and the lights went out. Upstairs 

Whole chunks played the devil with the bed 

Still warm from your dreams 

And the clues of hands and haunch and head.

But you weren’t there, crushed 

Beneath the latticework of laths, 

Though the air’s arch concussed you into dark 

To bring you round to such amazing quiet 

You were sure you were in Heaven, a graceful park

Coasting to a cry, which was yours, and then 

The familiar kitchen was crawling out of dust 

Into time you weren’t, after all, denied... 

The All Clear siren and the shrills of bells 

And the neighbours unhooked from the brick slide

That was next door’s up to minutes ago 

Groaning on the sofa, bleeding in the hall - 

And you knew now where you were, you said 

(standing in the street by your own front door) 

the fiery light dancing on the stockinged dead.

70 years ago this nation stood together to end a titanic struggle again Nazi Germany, a struggle that involved every citizen from these united kingdoms. For many there was joy and jubilation for many more there was a more sober and stunned response as they recalled all that had been lost and sacrificed in the struggle against an evil that strove to deny life and all that we value as a modern democratic society

Today the nation stands outside polling booths to cast their vote for those who will make choices that will affect all of us. We are able to enter the polling booths because of the sacrifice of those who have gone before us. We are able to have a say in who we believe should govern us, it is a gift as well as a right. let us use it well.

“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, 1 john 4.7

There is a lot said about love. In deed as Christians we have a lot to say about Love: think how many time the word appears in our sermons, our prayers, our hymns, in our Bible readings. In these Sundays of Easter we have been reading from the epistles of John which have one theme running throughout and it is Love.

    

Let us look in a little more detail at the words John writes in the 4^th chapter of his first letter, epistle.

In the two verses preceding our second reading this morning we see John touch on two important aspects of love. In verse 6, he writes, “And this is love, that we walk according to his commandments.” Christian love is most full understood as Love for God and in this verse he points to an important aspect of Christian love, that is first and foremost obedience to God. Love is not passive, not primarily an emotion we feel, love is something we do – obey God. Of course, when John says this, he is reminding us of the teachings of Jesus about love for the Lord our God being the greatest commandment. If we love God, we will obey him and the depth of our obedience is the mark by which we know our love.

    

In verse 5, John simply writes, “Love one another”, which echoes Paul’s teaching in Romans 8:8, “He who loves his neighbour has fulfilled the law”. “Love one another” – it is such a simple command… Christian love means to love others.

    

There is a lovely story told about John the apostle who was the only disciple to live into old age. As the Bishop of Ephesus, he lived a long time and had an active ministry to the day he died. But shortly before he died, he grew so frail that he had to be carried everywhere and he had little breath to preach for long. And time and time again, he would preach the same sermon; a sermon that was only 5 words long: “Little children, love one another”. Five small words that, for John, encapsulated the Christian message.

    

Loving God and loving others – two practical out workings of the Christian faith.

Turning to our reading verses 7-8: John tells us that God’s nature is love. “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.” Notice it says two things. Verse 7 says that “love is from God.” And verse 8 at the end says, “God is love.” These are not at odds.

Because when John says that “love is from God,” he doesn’t mean it’s from him the way letters are from a mailman, or even letters are from a friend. He means that love is from God the way heat is from fire, or the way light is from the sun. Love belongs to God’s nature. It’s woven into what he is. It’s part of what it means to be God. The sun gives light because it is light. And fire gives heat because it is heat.

So John’s point is that for we who live in Christ, we who renewed our baptism at Easter a month ago are acknowledging that we are part the divine life of God and that an essential part of that life is love. God’s nature is love, and in the new birth that comes with our baptism God’s nature becomes part of who we  are.

When we look at verse 12 of our second reading we read “No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is perfected in us.”

In these words John is assuring us that the love we have when we are born again through our baptism is no mere imitation of the divine love, no it is an experience of the divine love and it is the divine love that we pass on when we fulfill the commandment of our lord – that is to love God and love our neighbour.

So the first way John links God’s love for us and our love for people is by focusing on God’s nature as love and how when we are made one with Christ, when we are born again, when we are baptized we are connected to that divine nature.

John then goes on to speak of how the love of God is manifested in history

Verse 10 we read “In this is love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins. ¹¹Beloved, since God loved us so much, we also ought to love one another. ¹²No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God lives in us, and his love is perfected in us.”

It is in Love, from love, because of love, that God could no longer stand by but chose to become part of the created order he has brought in to being through the word by the power of he Spirit.

When we see that All powerful, All knowing, Creator, Glorious but distant God moved by Love to become part of our lives we see how and why we also get involved.

Once again the people of this island have shown their deep desire to get involved in the life of others who are in need in the amazing giving of £15 million to the suffering in Nepal. But as impressive as this is it is does not really capture the meaning John is conveying when he speaks about the love of God revealed in Jesus Christ and our response.

Salvation history is filled with examples of those who have been sent, as a donation is sent, to guide, direct and even plead with humanity to love one another. In deed it is the revelation of Christianity that shows that such an approach is inadequate, Mohammad might well be the last of the prophets and peace be upon him, but prophets beginning with Adam are only like a donation sent across the world. The revelation of Christianity is that God himself travels across the vastness of time, across the void that separated our world from his and shows us love.

John tells us in verse 11 “Beloved since God loves us so much we also ought to love one another” when he says, “We ought to love each other,” he means ought in the way fish ought to swim in water and birds ought to fly in the air and living creatures ought to breathe and peaches ought to be sweet and lemons ought to be sour. As baptized people, we are born again and ought to love. It’s who we are. This is not mere imitation. For the children of God, imitation becomes realization. We are realizing who we are when we love. God’s Spirit is in us. God’s nature is in us. God’s love is being perfected in us. so that when people see us they see God, when people experience love they are experiencing the reality of God

Why can’t we give love that one more chance?

Why can’t we give love……

Cause Love’s such an old fashioned word

and Love dare you to care

for the people on the edge of the night

and love dares you to change our way

of caring about ourselves

                                    Under Pressure by David Bowie

“little Children let us love not in word or speech but in truth and action” 1John 3.18

In the 3^rd chapter of the 1st letter of St  John we read some of the most beautiful language of the Christian Tradition.

The concern of the Evangelist John in his writings is for the love of Christ to be manifest within the life of the early church because already there was division and disunity within the church. Precise dating is not possible but the consensus among scholars is that John was writing his epistles, his letters probably around the year 80 CE, so some 50 years after the crucifixion of Christ.

Sadly this reality of division and actions of Christians that betray the love of god revealed through our Lord Jesus Christ continues throughout our history and is present with us today in the life of the church throughout the world.

"God is love" declares the Evangelist John in another of his epistles and "to live in love is to live in God and is for God to live in us."

Let us love God and those whom he has given us and our neighbours, for this is how our faith should be seen, felt and put in action by us his children.

What we need to learn in life is how to love people and use things instead of using people and loving things.

 Mother Teresa once said
 It is not how much you do, but how much Love you put into the doing that matters.

Our prayers are with the people of Nepal in the aftermath of a devastating earthquake

Prayers for the Nepal earthquake (Christian Aid)

Loving God, 

We pray for the people of Nepal, devastated by an earthquake 
At this time, we know you are present among the suffering 
May your comfort be known by those in that darkest valley

We pray that help will reach all those who need it, 
And lift to you Christian Aid's partners in Nepal, 
As they seek to swiftly respond to those in need

In Jesus' name we pray, 
Amen.

Congratulations to our newest members of the Church universal

At St Matthias  Scott and Claire had their beautiful daughter Grace baptised,

at St John's Dwaine and Geraldine had their little boy Zachai baptised see below"

Zackai being held by his God father

Fr John holding a bottle of Venezuelan  Diplomatico a very unexpected gift !!

blessing to one and all

“They were startled and terrified” how to find the Risen Christ

Fear is paralysing, it can be likened to a mental fog that leaves us unable to move forward. There is a discription of fear that speaks of an ocean liner:

If an ocean liner could think and feel, it would never leave its dock; it would be afraid of the thousands of huge waves it would encounter. It would fear all of its dangers at once, even though it had to meet them only one wave at a time.

Fear is not just in the mind, indeed there has been some research done on the connection between heart disease and memory loss, the latter being a sympton of heart problems. so fear affects our hearts and minds.

the disciples hearts were pounding – they were startled

the disiples minds went numb – they were terrified

the disiples were all at sea and it was if they were enveloped in a fog of confusion, terror and fear.

I don’t know the last time you had to drive in fog, but if you have then you will know that it is often advised that one should dip ones headlights, not turn them off completely, but reduce their power in order to see better.

It may sound counter intutitive, it stands to reason that to see better then there needs to be more light,  but with less light it is possible to see better when caught in fog.

There are always time in our life when it is as if we are in the midst of a heavy fog.

People who suffer from depression will know the feeling of the world that seems to fold in on them, wrapping them in a blanket shutting out the light and warmth generated by others leaving them in the darkness of depression, alone and afraid they sink into the dark hole of despair.

Less severe is the experience of confusion and lack of perspective that comes about in our life when we become confused and cannot see clearly. It is an experience that is not dissimilar to that of a person driving in heavy fog. A time when because of grief or uncertainly we cannot see a way out of a particular circumstance. When the familiar landscape is transformed into a world of shadowy figures and half seen dangers. We are left alone searching for the way out, searching for the light to guide us out of the fog of our confusion.

The disciples were in a fog  - more profound than the sort created by the early mist of the morning that will be burnt away by the light and warmth of the sun.

Their Fog was caused by their fear and loss, they were in the grip of despair caused by grief, they were plagued by doubt – how can the dead walk…unless they are a ghost.

It is into this fog of grief and uncertainly that the risen Christ steps and provides the light by which they can leave the fear and uncertainty behind and go out into the world holding the light of Christ to the darkness of the world and offering the reality of their faith before the despair and confusion of the world.

So what are we to learn from this for our selves?

What do you do when you find yourself surrounded by a fog of conflicting demands, a multiplicity of tasks that require your attention

Competing claims for your time?

Do you turn on your headlights to full beam as it were and crash on ahead, or do you turn your headlights down and look for the guiding light of the risen Lord to appear before you so that you can follow that light and leave behind the darkness and embrace the light?

Listen to this poem by Maya Angelou an African American poet – entitled Women’s work. It draws upon her reflections concerning Woman’s work that is never done and how from the beauy of nature, God’s creation, she is able to draw strenght, feel blessings and find her faith that in turn gave her the guidance and strength to continue in the jounry of her extra ordinary life………..

I've got the children to tend

The clothes to mend

The floor to mop

The food to shop

Then the chicken to fry

The baby to dry

I got company to feed

The garden to weed

I've got shirts to press

The tots to dress

The cane to be cut

I gotta clean up this hut

Then see about the sick

And the cotton to pick.

Shine on me, sunshine

Rain on me, rain

Fall softly, dewdrops

And cool my brow again.

Storm, blow me from here

With your fiercest wind

Let me float across the sky

'Til I can rest again.

Fall gently, snowflakes

Cover me with white

Cold icy kisses and

Let me rest tonight.

Sun, rain, curving sky

Mountain, oceans, leaf and stone

Star shine, moon glow

You're all that I can call my own.

Maya Angelou

By turning down the headlights

By slowing the thing down

By stopping and listening

maybe we will find that we are in a better position to see the Lord before us holding out his hands to us, looking upon us and giving us his peace, allowing us to be enfolded in his embrace.

When we are in the fog of our confusion, loss or fear, let us stop and turn away from own restlessness, let go of our endless but futile efforts and let God, yes to let go and let God.

When we stop speaking and start listening we will be far better placed to hear the still small voice of God calling to us – why are you frightened look it is me!

When our own search beam of questions and doubts is dipped we will stand a better chance of seeing the one one true light standing before us and giving us purpose and meaning in our life

When we put down our own hands and bow our head we will be more likely to feel the gentle touch of Jesus Christ as he embraces us offering us forgiveness and healing, offering us his new life.